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Murali Gembali

Murali Gembali

I have known Satish for over 25 years and nearly the same period he was my father-in-law whom I affectionately called Dad. My own father, Nana, passed away 11 years ago and Dad took on the role of both fathers effortlessly. Dad’s persistence as a matchmaker resulted in Madhu and I getting married in November 1997 which has led to Maya and Rishi coming into this world. They have their Nana to thank for their existence. Over the last 25 years I understand that Dad was cross with me on just one occasion. This was when Madhu was in labour with Maya. Being the birthing partner, I had other things on my mind and failed to keep in contact with Dad during the labour process. As many of you know Dad can get quite anxious and worried which I learnt very quickly, so I made sure I was in regular contact with him when Madhu was in labour with Rishi. Prior to meeting Madhu, I was a pescatarian and drank very little. Dad tried to encourage me with a glass of red wine, G+T, or even a glass of beer and over the years I became more of a social drinker. However, I remained a pescatarian despite the wonderful and tempting aromas that emanated when he made his famous Lamb Bhuna. However, he always made sure that there was a fish option at mealtimes. Dad was supportive with my work, family life, interests and hobbies. However, I had to be very economical with the truth when I went on a scuba diving holiday with my friends as I became more aware of his over protection of his children’s welfare. Over the last quarter of a century, I have many fond memories of Dad spending time during Christmases, Diwalis, birthdays and other celebrations as well as going away for long weekends and even going on holidays. During that time, he has always been kind, thoughtful, caring, supportive and full of wisdom. It has been a pleasure to have known you, Dad, over the last 25 years and my life has been enriched as a result. I will miss you.

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