Anthony Deane Graffeo

Hi Jeff, I am so happy to hear that you were both so close. Rosemarie, my mom, has been trying to connect the dots for years and is grief stricken by the loss of her brother. If you are able to connect and share memories, it would mean a lot to her. You can email me at lbi7e16@gmail.com to connect.

This is the funniest memorials I ever read---he must have been some piece of-----work!!

Rose Marie - I am truly sorrow for your loss. i saw your article last week & was a little confused by it. Your brother was a very special person to me years ago. God it was so long ago...We were both trapped in loveless marriages when we met. I truly thought it was possible to have a relationship with him until he broke it off. His reasoning, at the time, was that his family and children would be hurt too deeply. I understood and moved to Florida where I reside today. I remember all the good times we shared and that your brother was very loving and passionate. We never met but I want to wish you the best as you cope with your grief. Your brother was the best to me and holds a special place in my heart. Best Wishes Jeff

“In loving memory of Anthony Graffeo, Some people will not accept responsibility for their actions & lack empathy & enjoy manipulating others. They blame everyone for their failures and often have an exaggerated self image of themselves. They may pretend to be good & altruistic, but it’s all about appearances for them. Some people tend to be greedy & cheap with their money. They are malignant narcissists who love to make everything about them. God Bless My brother always Rose Marie Santoro”

My dearest Godfather Many years have past and our family will now celebrate your life on your birthday every year going forward.... you have made such an impact on all of us without even knowing it.....My brothers and I have a bond that could never be broken.....We know how you treated your sister and that’s something you had to live with ..... the irony .....it taught us how to always be there for one another no matter what....I just want to thank you for that and hope one day you will be reunited with your parents....

Sorry for the graffeo family, and santoro famlly

2020-01-03 15:11:41wrote: Bobby Though our paths never crossed my grandmother often told us stories of you and her parents growing up. My grandmother is such a loving and caring person who loves everyone. She spoke about your misdeed against her and told us she forgives you. She taught us to forgive those who trespass against us and be the better person. We are older now and understand that our grandmother has been suffering from mental illness for 40 + years but that makes her special to us. I have often wondered how a brother takes advantage of his mentally disabled sister but not for me to answer. She asked each of her grandchildren to write you and pray for your soul. She is worried your parents will judge you harshly for your deed. I will pray for you to see the light someday. Rest In Peace Gary

2020-01-04 15:29:54wrote: To my grandmothers brother Bobby, I know we never met but my grandmother has asked me to pray for your soul. She told us you abandoned her 30 years ago and she forgives you. She said you were conflicted with how to befriend a sister while also trying to balance a limited moral compass. I understand my grandmother suffers from mental illness and has for many years which is why your parents named you as her caregiver. My grandmother is very special to me and I will pray for you at her request. I hope you someday see the light for all your actions. I was taught love is more powerful than money. Rest In Peace Christopher James