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Yuk Song Lai

April 13, 1930 - July 18, 2020

Best Mother in the World!

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  • 2020-07-22 18:09:19 View / Comment (0)
    Suen Ru Chong

    Suen Ru Chong

    Suen Ru Chong

    阿婆,今天是您去了另外一个世界的第五天,过得好吗?2020年7月18号是悲伤的一天。以前的我从来体会不到亲人过世是什么样的心情,直到现在的我终于感受到了。。。说实话,我和阿婆您相处的时间并不多,可以说是少之又少。所以每当我探望阿婆时不知该表达些什么。我一直希望总有一天我能听到关于我们家族的事情,想从阿婆您口中听到更多的故事。我会牢牢记住您告诫我的金玉良言“要好好读书”,我不会让您失望。我会以身作则,做好该做的事。谢谢您曾经为我做过的事。。。我很庆幸自己能送您最后一程。亲爱的阿婆,愿你到天堂里,一路好走,那里没有痛苦,只有幸福。瑄洳 上

  • 2020-07-22 08:06:45 View / Comment (0)
    Qing Ru Chong

    Qing Ru Chong

    Qing Ru Chong

    阿婆,您好吗?见到阿公了吗?我相信您一定过得很好。可是,孙女还是想念您了。每次看见您的相片,那些尘封在我成长记忆里的点点滴滴如同一根被拨动的琴弦,余音绕梁。阿婆,您时常告诫我们要好好学习,努力考上大学,把毕生所学一一回馈社会,孙女都谨记在心。感谢阿婆出现在我的生命里,孙女静如在这里愿阿婆能在云端之巅与阿公携手享天人之乐。阿婆,一路走好。 孙女 静如 上

  • 2020-07-21 12:40:26 View / Comment (0)
    Kim Lim

    Kim Lim

    Kim Lim

    Your beautiful, gentle spirit will fly free and your smile will forever be in our memories

  • 2020-07-20 18:31:28 View / Comment (1)
    莉芸 周

    莉芸 周

    莉芸 周

    妈。。千言万语。。不知从何说起。 就从我认识阿贵开始。阿贵第一次谈起妈您的时候, 是用四个字来形容妈您的。 说“我妈妈是一个很省的人。。我妈妈是“省吃俭用” 把我们6个兄弟姐妹养大的。我妈妈5分钱也很珍惜的。当时,我对阿贵说, 天下父母心。你妈妈如果没有像你所谓的“省吃俭用”, 那会成就今天的你呢?...对了, 就是这样。。打从毕业开始, 找到的第一份工作在新山。就开始借住在15楼。开始和您一起生活时。心里其实很害怕。。不过在和妈妈相处的一段日子,我观察到妈妈您是一个外表严肃不过不能相处的人。和您相处一起的点点滴滴我都牢牢记在心里。妈妈每天旁晚在15楼床口望下火车站和天桥。等我和阿贵, 还有阿 moi 放工一起吃晚餐。。我每个月出粮就买妈妈爱吃的“wa dan hor" 给妈妈配饭一起吃。。因为阿贵告诉我妈妈喜欢这样吃法。饭后还切苹果。我每天陪妈妈看电视剧还一边聊天。 妈妈会跟我谈心事, 说她以前年轻时很辛苦, 说她想念爸爸。 还交代我以后如果有了孩子, 不管男女都要拱她们读大学, 才不会被人瞧不起, 还说了很多很多, 我就只是伶听。 接着不久, 我搬去吉隆坡了。 还记得妈妈来吉隆坡找我们。 当时我没有什么钱, 我只带妈妈去吃甲洞最好吃的Asam Laksa 和 Cendol..不过也觉得开心呢。 我永远记得妈妈当时握着我的手跟小贩阿姨说“ 这位是我的好媳妇。是上帝赐给我的好媳妇” 。小贩阿姨对妈妈笑了。妈妈也笑了。 我也握着妈妈的手说“ 快吃吧。。冷了就不好吃了”. 过了不久为了有更好的生活, 阿贵去了新加坡工作, 接着两年后我就这样我又搬回新山了。 当时妈妈开始病了。 我对阿贵说, 现在我们比较有能力些, 为什么不要请一个女拥放在家照顾妈妈。。为什么要把她放在那个地方。 阿贵说。。妈妈不要跟我们住。 当时我就想起妈妈之前一直跟我说爸爸交代他一定不可以难为孩子。。说什么掌心是肉, 掌背也是肉。。妈。。您就是这样。。我记得你跟我说的每一句话。 你就是这样。。一生无怨无悔的为孩子付出。。千言万语。。说到这都想哭了

  • 2020-07-20 15:57:12 View / Comment (0)
    Kwee Yeen Chong

    Kwee Yeen Chong

    Kwee Yeen Chong

    Always In Our Hearts

  • 2020-07-20 15:46:48 View / Comment (0)
    Kwee Yeen Chong

    Kwee Yeen Chong

    Kwee Yeen Chong

    Mom, we miss you so much. You are the best mother as you always sacrifice everything for us. You work tireless to bring us up and always ensure that we received best education. You will always wake up 4am to cook breakfast for us to eat for our morning school. Although you work from 9am to 9pm, you will always make sure we have proper lunch and dinner. You will always reserved best for us. We will miss you forever.

  • 2020-07-19 09:55:33 View / Comment (1)
    Candice Choong

    Candice Choong

    Candice Choong

    婆婆,您到彩虹的另一边了吗?记得新年时您总是在厨房忙着为孩子孙子准备丰盛的团圆饭,也记得您到我们家时我坐在您的身旁听您讲客家话。婆婆,您对生活不懈的坚持令我们敬仰,是我们的榜样。您的曾孙有一天也会知道。婆婆,知道你疲倦了,安息吧。我们爱你。 孙女慧清,曾孙女雲祺 致上

  • 2020-07-19 09:16:23 View / Comment (1)
    Poon Liong Lai

    Poon Liong Lai

    Poon Liong Lai

    She was like a mother to me, I will miss her deeply... Lai Yoke Mei (Sister)

  • 2020-07-19 02:17:27 View / Comment (1)

    Renee Tong

    To our beloved mama(popo): We will always remember and cherish these moments spent with you. We love you mama(popo).

  • 2020-07-18 18:37:06 View / Comment (0)
    Lin Hui

    Lin Hui

    Lin Hui

    Mama stands just at 1.52 m tall but her gentle demeanor belies her inner strength and mental resilience which are developed over the years. She is a woman of few words but her actions speak it all through the contagious affection for her loved ones, be it her own children, daughter-in-laws and grandchildren. Her wish is simple - to have everyone gathering under one roof to eat a family meal. We especially loved Mama's signature oyster pork 'haosi', and the extra punch that came with the sambal chilli. I vividly remember her radiant smile when we visited Mama and she would reinforce the message - must provide our children with a university education. Mama, Qi Qi has finished her masters and Kai Kai will be embarking on his university journey in 1 month's time so don't worry for them. I can feel your sense of nostalgia too every time you relate anecdotes to Ah Yong and me about your early life as a young girl in Malacca and how much your father dotes on you. I have no doubt you have really sweet and nice memories of those times. You have taken the candle in your own hands to light the world for all of us. We will treasure and cherish you forever in all our hearts !

  • 2020-07-18 12:43:59 View / Comment (0)
    Chrus Chong

    Chrus Chong

    Chrus Chong

    Dear Popo, thank you for your love and kindness all these years. I will always remember visiting you during my early childhood days looking forward to eating the fishball soup that you cooked. While papa cooks the same dishes sometimes, it still tastes a little different. I fondly remember how every visit would eventually lead up into a situation where papa tries to give you fruits/gifts and you would vehemently say 'mai mai' or no in hakka. It was clear how dearly you loved your children and I am truly grateful for your indomitable spirit and for the sacrifices you have made to raise your children into independent adults and caring parents. I sincerely hope that you rest in peace and enjoy what lies ahead. jiayou popo :) Love, Kai Kai

  • 2020-07-18 12:18:00 View / Comment (1)
    sam choong

    sam choong

    sam choong

    Emily Poe Hua wrote...... Dear Ma, although we see very little of each other, u were very often in my mind ! Thank you so much for all the delicious and tasty Hakka dishes that you always prepared for the Chinese New Year reunion lunch . , I love very much your new year cookies and your awesome hand made ba-changs. !We enjoyed and loved your every new year hand-made kueh bahlu and love letters..Lastly I thank u so much for your unconditional love that you had showered to your two grand-daughters . I will never forget the half dozen pajamas pants that you hand sewed for the then 8 months old Sandra ,so many decades ago. Emily Poe Hua

  • 2020-07-18 11:47:22 View / Comment (1)
    Poon Liong Lai

    Poon Liong Lai

    Poon Liong Lai

    I remember visit Chun Ku with my father, the late Mr Lai Kuen Poo, She insisted that we go for lunch (my late father was a vegetarian, so we had lunch at a vegetarian restaurant) and throughout lunch she made sure I had taste all the dishes in abundance. Beautiful and generous aunty. She shall be missed. Nephew (Lai Poon Liong)

  • 2020-07-18 11:43:58 View / Comment (1)
    Poon Liong Lai

    Poon Liong Lai

    Poon Liong Lai

    Treasured Sister & Remarkable Aunt My childhood memories of Aunt Yuk Song are vague. In adulthood, I have grown to admire and respect her from a distance. My most memorable interactions with her was on the occasion on the passing of her beloved husband. My dad was not able to travel to JB so he sent me as I had started working in Singapore. After I had paid my respects, even in her grief, she insisted on feeding me at her home. It was a simple soup but extremely delicious. Sam tells me she is a culinary wizard. In her more youthful days when she was hospitalized at SGH, whenever I popped by her hospital bed, I found her full of vigour, lively and cheerful. Dad had always lamented that his older sisters were never allowed much education in their youth. Dad had always been very proud of all his sisters. He often remarks they have done remarkably well despite being dealt harsh cards. Mdm Lai Yuk Song, treasured sister of the late Lai Kuen Poo, because she took on the job of doting and looking after him because grandma was sickly. Rest well Aunty Yuk Song and rest in peace for having lived, loved unconditionally and know you are the beloved of many. Niece (Oi Fah)

  • 2020-07-18 14:13:09 View / Comment (0)
    Ah Gu

    Ah Gu

    Ah Gu

    Mummy, I miss you and the ache within my heart just will not go away . I keep thinking how much you cared and loved all your children. You devoted all your love to us and always make sure we have the best . Have a good rest. Papa is waiting for you . Tell Papa that I miss him too. You are a wonderful mum. I entrust my mum into your care, Lord.

  • 2020-07-18 09:45:39 View / Comment (0)
    Renee Tong

    Renee Tong

    Renee Tong

    Dear mama, For the 1st time I offer you flower is at this prayer corner that Agu had prepared for you.. Thank you mama for your love. 妈妈!对不起!

  • 2020-07-18 09:31:15 View / Comment (0)
    Chong Jie Ee

    Chong Jie Ee

    Chong Jie Ee

    Dear PoPo, thank you for the unconditional love and sacrifices that you have given to our family . I will treasure the times we spent , esp during Chinese New Year when you would always cook delicious food for us . You would also encourage me to do my best in my academics so that I can go to Uni, whenever I came to visit you . Don’t worry PoPo, I will work hard and do well in my studies . May you find eternal life and joy in heaven with the Lord , where no pain or sorrow will ever exist.

  • 2020-07-18 09:14:27 View / Comment (0)
    Crystal Chong

    Crystal Chong

    Crystal Chong

    Popo, thank you for your love all these years. My favourite memory of you was watching you cook up a feast every Chinese New Year and indulging in your Hakka dishes together as one big family. You always insisted on me finishing university and reminded me every time I visited you, for as long as you remembered me. You loved your children and grandchildren fiercely and sacrificed so much for all of us. May you find peace and rest in the afterlife.

  • 2020-07-18 08:09:05 View / Comment (0)
    Sandra Choong

    Sandra Choong

    Sandra Choong

    I remember that my Popo will come to our house when I was a baby to carry me and see Dad and Mom. Every year when we go to Popo’s house, she will call my name Ah Wen and make us a lot of goodies. She was always very happy when the whole family are together during CNY. Popo will always be remembered as a loving and generous grandmother. Thank you Popo for everything that you have done

  • 2020-07-18 07:55:06 View / Comment (0)
    Patrick Chong

    Patrick Chong

    Patrick Chong

    You are the best mother in the world, truly selfless and always thinking what is best for us kids. You will not buy yourself a plate of char kway teow or even a can of your favourite sarsi, but would not hesitate to pay for our costly education. You worked long hours at the textile shop (9am-9pm, x7days) to ensure that we lived comfortably. My happiest moments in life are during those childhood days where you showered us with tender loving care. Thank you Mother.

  • 2020-07-18 07:33:01 View / Comment (0)
    sam choong

    sam choong

    sam choong

    Mother with all her children

  • 2020-07-20 06:59:29 View / Comment (0)
    sam choong

    sam choong

    sam choong

    sam choong 2020-07-18 07:04:53 wrote: To our beloved mother.. You are a great mother to us. You took care of us since birth . You took care of us when we were sick, You kept us warm and you clothed us all You cooked for us everyday and kept the best for your children . We love you Mother, we love your kind and gentle upbringing that what makes all of us today. I remembered those happy and wonderful days in Malacca. I remember the days when grandma gave you those fruits after prayers , you always kept them for me. I am grateful to you, mummy for being strict to me.. and every night you would sit beside me and coached me my school lessons. There were so many wonderful times that we had spend together that still lingers in my mind. Mum you are also a wonderful daughter to grandmother in Malacca for more than 13 years.. You took care of grandma everyday, you cooked for her and your cleaned her too.. In you twilight years you still think of grandmother !. You once said to me , you had wished that you could take care of grandma longer and cared for her more. .. If there is such thing as after life.. I and all you present children would want to be your children again !! I have so mush to say to you mum but I..... You have walked a long and tired journey and now you rest peacefully mum .... We will always treasure those wonderful memories and all your children will be proud to call you our most wonderful and beloved Mother....

  • 2020-07-18 10:55:56 wrote:

    We just heard this very sad news, our condolences from all the Lims here in Australia at this time of deep sorrow. May aunty rest in peace and leave behind a lasting legacy and many wonderful memories for all who knew and loved her, she will be terribly missed. Our love to all families, stay safe and may this message find you all in good health.

    2020-07-18 10:55:56 wrote: We just heard this very sad news, our condolences from all the Lims here in Australia at this time of deep sorrow. May aunty rest in peace and leave behind a lasting legacy and many wonderful memories for all who knew and loved her, she will be terribly missed. Our love to all families, stay safe and may this message find you all in good health.

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