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Ben to my family and I is a big hearted- happy - honest - fun friend,brother, and son. I am so blessed to have many fun and amazing times and memories with him. All those times we've spent together, his presence always warmed up the room, and eveybody loves being around him. His laughter was contagious and so memorable. He was very honest and genuine. He was always there to support. He was always there to challenge. Ben always had a place in my heart, and he would always pop into my mind. The fun celebrations we had with friends (Like spraying silly strings all over Kent's basement). The volunteering we did at the temple (So many tables to move..and "OoooOH yes!" We did with the youth group hahaha) How he laughed at grandma-style driving haha. He had the super power of making the room full of laughter. I am very sad to see Ben leave so early, but he will forever have a place in my heart. And I wish you the best and peaceful next journey, and continue to bring your amazing presence to where ever you goes. I miss you alot, buddy.
Remembering Ben as good friend, terrific cook and wonderful person. He could always light up a room with his extremely gregarious persona, quick wit and roaring laughter. Ben was an excellent cook. I remember calling him over to try my food to see what I could improve and he always gave me very thoughtful and reassuring advice. Ben was like that - he always saw the best in people and he wanted the best for them too. I’ll never forget the time we had growing up together as neighbors, playing in the streets as kids and going trick-or-treating. We really did have fun. Thinking of and missing you.
Starting a new life in Canada was not easy as a young kid. So thankful to have Ben as a friend and show me the way. Many great childhood memories were created at the Hui's home, especially with Ben giving me a rides around the hood.
As long as I can remember, I’ve always wanted a an older brother. Someone who would teach me how to be cool; someone who would always protect me; someone who would love me unconditionally. At 12 years old, Ben to me was the epitome of cool. He could fill a room with laughter and made everyone feel at ease. He could take on almost anything in a way that felt effortless. And over the years, he taught me so much. He introduced me to Madvillain and showed me how to poach an egg. He taught me how find joy in stressful moments. Most of all, he taught me how to love fiercely. Ben was someone who recognized everyone for exactly who they were and loved them all the more for it. He was someone who would give everything to be there for others, no matter what was happening in his life. Once, Ben and I were joking and he told me he would need to hire someone to write him personal motivational speeches. The truth is, he already filled that role for so many people. Ben saw the best in everyone and reminded everyone to see the best in themselves. He made everyone feel like family. I’m so thankful to have had a brother in him. Words cannot express how much I’ll miss him.
It’s hard to sort through the memories that I have of Ben and pick one to share because there are so many. To know Ben was to experience how warmth can fill a room. To say that Ben was a loving person is a huge understatement. Ben had a bigger love for others, for service, for food, and music than most people in this world are capable of. I think tenderly, for example, of his love for his cat Furella (‘pharrell’a), whom Ben adopted when lived in Ottawa. She was a small black cat, one that frankly acted like a dog and would excitedly greet people at the door and enjoyed endless belly rubs. She would be on him at all times (So precious was his love for her and hers for him that when I, his girlfriend then, visited him, she would leave poop on the floor to let us know she was upset with the sudden lack of attention she got). But he was also badly allergic to her. His face would grow a few sizes and his eyes would water after a good kitty cuddle. I asked him whether that meant he had to give her up, to which he answered that he would force his allergies to disappear with his love for her. And so he did. A few months of suffering and immunity building later, Ben and Furella snuggled up redness- and swelling-free. Very few things were a match for the love Ben brought to the people and passions that captured his attention. I don’t know how to express my deep sadness at losing this person and all that he brought to the world. Ben, we were truly lucky to know you and to be in your life for the short time that we could. Thank you for your love. Miss you so much.
I will always remember Ben as a positive, affable and creative friend. He was always eager to provide an additional spark to wherever he went, bring great humour, and be a leader in events. Ben taught me many things including how to stay grounded, to take on life's problems with a courageous attitude, and a diverse and artistic world. He would always be up for a laugh, a good time, be a fun host, and looking to encourage everyone to be involved. Once, I saran wrapped his car for his birthday but was worried that he might not appreciate it as much after a long day of volunteering at the temple. However, he gave me a positive and cheerful response after he saw the 'gift'. I always saw him as gracious free spirit, but one that left us too soon. You will be missed and remembered fondly.
Mei Yamasaki
Mei Yamasaki
Ben's family have been my neighbours for 30 years. Our children grew up together. There were many fond memories of birthday parties and get together. The Hui's are the most kind, caring and gentle people. My heart was broken when I heard about Ben. Memories of him keep flashing back. His laughter, speech, charisma, and kindness touched everyone!! Rest in peace Ben. We will miss you !
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