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11 Jun - 20 Apr

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The Reverend Canon James Ratnanayagam passed away peacefully on the morning of Monday 20th April. He was almost 94 years old. He and his wife, Latika, celebrated their 55th wedding anniversary the previous day. Father James, as he was popularly known, suffered a stroke towards the end of March. After spending some days in hospital, he returned home where his condition gradually declined. He enjoyed a long and happy life and was a blessing to so many. A few hours after his death, his mortal remains were cremated at the Crematorium in Kanatte, Borella, following a brief service conducted by the Bishop and the Archdeacon of Colombo. Many have expressed regret that they were unable to pay their respects and to attend his funeral owing to the current restrictions. Consequently, his family have created this memorial page to offer those who wish to do so the opportunity to pay tribute to him and to share their memories of him. Please send your memories to ratnanayagamfamily@gmail.com and they will be added to Father James' memory page. Alternatively, click on 'Memories' below and follow the given instructions to register an account that will enable you to contribute directly to this memorial page. ___

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23-07 2020 23:14 Bekijk / Reageren (0)

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Dear Latika, What a good idea this is, a link in the computer to share our grief and precious memories of this great lovely man, Fr James, a very dear friend to so many people he lived among and ministered to for about three-quarters of a century. It's a golden opportunity for me to share this with some very old friends of my SCM days, some of more than fifty years ago - Ginny Rogers, Abayasekaras, Dodo Thambapillai, Sydney Knight, Vasee Nesiah and others. I thank God for letting us have Fr James for 94 years and share his most beautiful life that was such a blessing to so many many people, his fellow schoolmates, schoolboys of St John's, University students in Peradeniya and parishioners of the churches in Colombo that he served, the Cathedral, Good Shepherd, Holy Trinity, St Francis of Assissi, St Paul's and many others he went to as visiting preacher. I first came to know about Rev J R Ratnanayagam when I was a student of Jaffna College and learned then itself that he was an exceptionally good preacher and a great after-dinner speaker. As I grew older I had occasions to hear him and realise how true that was. I held him in high esteem and my admiration for him continued to grow. When I was the Secretary of the SCM of Ceylon 1963-65 he was still at St John's but I relied on him much for guidance and support in my work. He was most gracious and ready to give his good counsel and assistance lavishly. His ways were so endearing and charming. Long before he or I was married I once invited him to have a meal in my parents' home, the Alaveddy parsonage. He accepted the invitation and came by public transport bus to find my home and honoured us by enjoying the lunch, simple rice and curry that my parents cooked for him and mangoes for dessert. He ate well, I remember, saying, "A good eater makes a happy cook". We felt very flattered and greatly honoured. I was glad to meet Jayadeva once in Adelaide when he came with Dr Chandran and Ranee Chinnappa and their daughter Renuka and husband to give a concert and raise money to support himself as a student in Melbourne. He played the piano very well; I was not surprised knowing his parents as choristers. I heartily thank God for my friend, Fr James and wish you Latika God's consolation and peace as you and your children and grandchildren continue to live on to glorify God as he did utilizing his great talents and gifts in His service all his life. S N Sugunananthan, Adelaide, AUSTRALIA.

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He came from a sturdy generation, didn't he? That was all to our benefit here. I knew Fr. James as a school girl at Bishop's College and then as a member of the congregation at St. Paul's Milagiriya where he served as the second clergyman after retirement because it was a large congregation and needed two priests. Humble man that he was, he occupied the curate's quarters and put his books in the garage because there was no other place for them. He had a condition of the eyes that meant deterioration of his sight over time. I saw him using a notebook instead of a prayer book at mass and turning pages rapidly, implying large letters, so I asked him one day, when I saw him sitting with his books in the garage of the curate's quarters. There was no self pity in his presentation of the information. He thought very highly of my parents, Melville and Shelagh Fernando, which I appreciated very much, given the extent of the nastinesses that Mum and Dad had to cope with. He recognised worth but never imposed. He never took advantage of anyone. He was never mean or nasty to anyone. He would reprimand when necessary but always with grace and dignity that preserve the dignity of the one being reprimanded. That's what made him such a role model, such an inspiration. He even burst with pride over Jayadeva's initiation of the organ at Scott's Kirk with grace and dignity. We were there, Mum, Dad and I, when Jayadeva inaugurated the pipe at Scott's Kirk with the kind of performance I would have expected to have in Colombo only on Dad's records. Jayadeva can make the ridiculous toys that we are obliged to use in churches here sing, such is his gifting. But this pipe, the most complex and efficient machine in the country at the time, was almost worthy of Jayadeva's ability. There were people who didn't sing when opportunity presented itself just so they could simply listen to the organist working beauty and majesty that evening. And Fr. James was so proud of Jayadeva. He fairly ran across the paving at the end of the concert and flung his arms around him and held him and held him and held him. Such a simple, profound gesture. He did everything with grace and dignity. And what he knew! As much as we learned from him, there was always a whole library more to go! But it never occurred to him that he was an authority on all things Anglican - he just took it for granted that he was to dispense information and guidance wherever relevant or necessary. One day, I introduced him to someone as "one of the very few Anglican priests I really respect." He immediately laughed that off with, "And now you can ask Sandra how much I paid her to say that!" He paid for my regard with his character, personality and graciousness. No one was beneath his care. I wonder how large his reception committee was over yonder? Now thank we all our God with hearts and hands and voices, Who lent us such a man whose memory rejoices The ones who follow on, blessed much upon our way With countless thoughts of his love till we meet him one sweet day. Sandra Fernando

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15-06 2020 00:29 Bekijk / Reageren (0)

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I have tears in my eyes as I write about my beloved Fr. James who was not just a priest but a father who loved me as much as he did his own children. He was a familiar figure at our family gatherings. He would love coming over to our house to have a chat with my dad who was so fond of Fr. James. He always remembered my favorite hymns and I used to love attending the evening services at Holy Trinity church, Wellawatte. I had the privilege of teaching at the Sunday school at the Church of the Good Shepherd at the time he was the parish priest. He was always so kind towards me. I was most certainly blessed to have had in in my life. He had a large heart and large hands and when he would clasp mine at the end of the service, all my troubles would seem far away. I always saw my heavenly father's love towards me through Fr. James. May God grant him rest eternal! Ruani Makalanda .

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Pictures taken at our wedding at St Paul's Church, Milagiriya (photographs contributed by Ruani Makalanda).

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Picture taken at my 21st birthday (photograph contributed by Ruani Makalanda).

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02-06 2020 23:08 Bekijk / Reageren (0)

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Dear Aunty Lathika, Prasadini, Deveshta, Jayadeva & the rest of the family, We were sad to have heard of Fr. James’ passing away in late April, the day after their 55th wedding anniversary. Please accept our deepest sympathies. May God give you peace and strength to bear your loss. I know my father had the highest regard for Fr. James throughout their ministry in the Anglican Church, and together, I think they proposed and seconded the names of at least two Bishops of the Diocese of Colombo; Bp Swithin and Bp Jabez. My father recently mentioned that Fr. James was number one on the list of priests in the Diocesan green book, and my father number two. Sadly, they are both no more among us. I remember Fr. James as a gentle and kind priest, with a warm smile. My husband Nilan (son of the late Rev. Noel de Mel), speaks fondly of Fr. James, who was a good friend of his father. May you be comforted by the precious memories you have of your loved one. May Fr. James Rest In Peace and Rise in Glory. Shanika de Mel (Rev. Godwin Weerasuriya’s daughter)

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Srimevan and Suganthy Motha with Fr. James and Latika. Picture taken in February 2017.

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24-05 2020 22:30 Bekijk / Reageren (0)

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24-05 2020 22:25 Bekijk / Reageren (0)

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Appreciation: Father James Ratnanayagam. It is a privilege to write this tribute to Father James. I am reminded of the nineteen sixties when Father James was the Chaplain of St. John’s College Jaffna. I was on the staff of Chundikuli Girls College Jaffna. A convert from Hinduism, Father James prepared me for baptism into the Christian faith. He was diligent and saw to it that I was thorough in my knowledge of the basic truths of the Christian faith. Father James gave me the courage and confidence I needed to embark on this new adventure in life. I met father James again in 1982 when I joined the staff of Methodist College Colombo 3. Father James was Chaplain of St. Michael’s Church Polwatte. He endeared himself to the parishioners by his knowledgeable sermons. He was a much sought-after padre and officiated at weddings and baptisms. His preaching was full of anecdotes, humour and theological insights. He was fluent in English and Tamil. Father James embraced Anglican liturgy. He promoted dialogue and negotiation to achieve harmony. Latika Samarasinha, his beloved wife and companion in life was devoted to him. There will be a void in her heart that is hard to fill. Father James officiated at my son Michael’s wedding at St. Paul’s Milagiriya, Bambalapitiya on December first 2007. We have fond memories of that occassion, more so because of Father James’ participation and pastoral support. We will treasure memories of Father James. I pray that the Lord will comfort his wife Latika and his children Prasadini and Ricky, Deveshta, Jayadeva, Helen and his grandchildren. Saradha Olegasegarem

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Niranjala Abayasekara

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I met Fr James for the first time at my wedding! He had been asked to participate in our marriage service by my husband Ranjan, who had known him as chaplain at Peradeniya University. Before long I came to know Aunty Latika and the family well. Although we went to live overseas in the 1980s we came regularly to SriLanka, and were able to visit them at all the parishes they served in Colombo. Towards end 2002, their youngest child, David was due to graduate in Melbourne, and Fr James and Aunty planned to be present at the occasion. They flew via Adelaide, and we were pleased to pick them up at the airport and drive them to spend three nights with us in Whyalla, in South Australia. I enjoyed repaying some of the gracious hospitality we had enjoyed in their homes around Colombo. In December 2007, while on holiday in SriLanka we were happy to attend the 50 year celebration of Fr James’ ordained ministry, at the beautiful home in Kohuwela, built by elder daughter Prasadini & husband Ricky. In November 2011 their younger daughter, Deveshta flew to Sydney, Australia seeking new challenges. Fr James & Aunty naturally had qualms about her adventures down under. As if divinely ordained, out of the hundreds of suburbs in the vast city of Sydney, Deveshta unknowingly selected the same suburb as Ranjan’s elder brother Rohan and wife Suvendrini to make her home. This happy circumstance has further cemented our bond with her and the Ratnanayagam family. We have enjoyed Deveshta’s wonderful hospitality, and even stayed many nights in her home. Our holiday stays in Colombo are spent partly at my sister’s home in Jawatte, which is walking distance from the Cathedral home of Fr James. Hence we have been able to visit them very often in the past decade. Fr James’ cheerfulness, singing and eloquent prayers always were a blessing. The loving marriage and strong family bonds he enjoyed are an example and witness in modern times, when many relationships are short lived. His life on earth is over, but the legacy, as a minister and as a man, that he has left will endure, in the hearts and minds of many.

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Uncle Ranjan and Ayya in front of the Whyalla wetlands - 2002

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22-05 2020 07:37 Bekijk / Reageren (0)

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Visiting Ranjan and Niranjala Abayasekara, in Whyalla, South Australia - 2002. Picture taken on Hummock Hill, Whyalla.

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21-05 2020 10:02 Bekijk / Reageren (0)

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The following is the sermon preached by Bishop Dhilo Canagasabey at Fr. James’ funeral. My dear brothers and sisters in Christ, we are gathered here before all that remains of God’s anointed servant, the Revd. Canon James Ratnanayagam, whom the Lord has called for higher service. St. Paul in his letter to the Ephesians is praying for something. He is praying for the fullness of God to be experienced by every member of the church. And today, we are gathered around Fr. James’ mortal remains, bowing our knees in thanksgiving to God for what he achieved in his life journey, in his ministry, in his family life, the fullness of God in full measure. We bow our knees before the Father for this man of God, who made his family to know that they derive their name from God; not only his personal family, but the community of believers in the church and also in the community in which he lived. He ministered all these years so that every believer will know that they derive their name from God, that they derive their position from God, that they derive their recognition from God; and today, even as we look back at the beautiful family he lived together with Latika and their children, Prasadini, Deveshta and Jayadeva and their families, we know that this man whom they lovingly called Aiyya, made known to them above everything that they, like he, derived their name from God. Secondly, we are here to bow our knees before God in thanksgiving because according to the riches of God’s glory, he ministered in such a way that every person who came to a time of meeting their Lord and Master and their Saviour was strengthened in the inner person. The spiritual strength, the courage to meet any challenge and every challenge. When Latika fell ill, I always felt that there was something that had to be learned from the way in which this man of God handled Latika’s illness. The joy of knowing the Lord, the joy of serving the Lord, the joy of belonging to the Lord, never departed from his heart. The humour in which he made everybody happy, everybody felt not the absence of God but the very presence of God in the midst of the difficulties and tribulations that we are called to face. We thank God for that ministry by which he strengthened every person in the inner life of that person. Thirdly, we are here, bowing our knees before God in thanksgiving because he sowed the seed of faith. Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith, and I believe it is that faith that led them through these long years of happy life together. Yesterday, I understand it was the 55th wedding anniversary of this beautiful couple, and I believe that may be Fr. James wanted to wait for that moment, and having completed those 55 years of partnership, 55 years of demonstrating their faith together, in good times and bad times, he decided to get back home when the Father called him. Finally, we are here bowing our knees before the Father in thanksgiving, that through all the changing scenes of life, being rooted and grounded in the love of Christ, he comprehended the breadth, the length, and the height and the depth of the love of Christ. Thereby, here’s a man of God who reaped the good harvest of the fullness of God, a long life, a happy life, a joyful life, a life lived in hope even beyond the grave. And so today, we say thank you to God for this beautiful life lived among us and we release him, his soul unto the Lord and his mortal remains to be cremated. May God bless you all. Amen

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20-05 2020 11:25 Bekijk / Reageren (0)

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We became acquainted with the Ratnanayagam family in the mid-1970s when Suganthi was teaching at Methodist College. She and Latika, who was also a teacher at 'Metho' at that time, were good friends. We met Father James, and over time, became very close friends of the family. We visited them regularly and attended memorable birthday parties at their homes - first in Hultsdorf and later in Kollupitiya. Father James preached the homily at our wedding in 1978 - it was an outstanding message, as indeed all his sermons were. We were fortunate to have Father James and Latika present at our 25th wedding anniversary celebration in Melbourne in 2003. Father James conducted a prayer meeting. It was a blessed occasion when we were able to reminisce. Father James had a charming personality. He was among the most outstanding preachers of his generation. His theology was thorough; his vocabulary, vast; his diction, flawless. He was Christ-like in his manner - a simple and humble man who showed love and kindness to everyone he encountered. As I write this, I can imagine him addressing his family: 'Latika', 'Rasathi' and 'Rasa' were said in a unique tone and cadence that conveyed love, warmth and affection. The same applied to others, including friends like ourselves and the two Letchimi's - their faithful domestic helpers. We visited Father James and Latika over the years during our trips to Sri Lanka, which were very few and far between. The last occasion was in February 2017 when Deveshta was also present. We had a wonderful reunion with them. We treasure the many delightful memories of Father James and his family. May God continue to abundantly bless his dear family. "Well done thou good and faithful servant." Srimevan & Suganthi Motha

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Contributed by Anil Wickramasinghe. The following was a speech made by him at Fr. James' farewell at the Church of the Good Shepherd, Thimbirigasyaya, in December 1999. I think it was Albert Einstein, who said that the only constant is change. He probably referred to the world of quantum physics, when he said this, but I would say that this is common to most things. The only constant is change. We are here today at the threshold of change. Whilst the Gregorian calendars turn over to another year, bringing us ever close to the third millennium, we also bid farewell to our Vicar, Fr. James who has been with us for the past 7 years. How these years have flown! I first met Fr. James almost exactly 12 years ago, and this is a meeting I remember very clearly. I was residing in Kandy during that time, but had come down to Colombo to cast my vote at the 1988 Presidential Elections. I met Fr. James in the queue. As my parents were parishioners of his at the time, we began a conversation. I didn’t know quite what to make of him, except that here was quite an extraordinary man! When I took up residency in Colombo, I was able to confirm that he was indeed extraordinary in many ways, such as his depth of knowledge in theology and his extremely wide and varied experiences of life. I am sure, we would all remember his practical examples through personal experience. Just two Sundays back, he was speaking about the Japanese invasion of Malacca in WW2 and Psalm 46. We also hear interesting experiences of his life as a teacher at St. John’s Jaffna & the University of Peradeniya. I could go on, probably until the Year 2000, on the many areas on which he has spoken with great clarity and authority, which still hold our attention in spite of being repeated occasionally. I say he spoke with authority, and this is another extraordinary gift which is in Fr. James. He has the courage of his convictions. He solidly stands by what he honestly believes is right – and this is truly a rare commodity in these times. It has also been said that behind every good (or great) man, stands a woman, equally good, or perhaps even better! In the case of Fr. James, this theory is confirmed, by Latika and reinforced by his family, Prasadini (and her husband Ricardo), Deveshta and Jayadeva. I know that all the bodies of the Church of the Good Shepherd, Thimbirigasyaya – the Board of Wardens, the Mother’s Union, the Youth Fellowship and the Sunday School give their best wishes, and I hope that all of you would please join me in wishing him and all his family well, and may they continue to be happy and blessed in their new parish. It gives me much pleasure to hand over this token of our appreciation to Fr. James, on behalf of the parish of the Church of the Good Shepherd.

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Dear Mrs Ratnanayagam, Prasadhini, Devishta & David, Please accept the deepest sympathies from my wife Petunia and me upon the passing away of Fr James. Earth’s loss is Heaven’s gain, and I can just picture Fr James singing lustily with the heavenly host. I have so many fond memories of Fr James and Mrs Ratnanayagam. Prasadhini & Devishta were born while I was on campus, while I heard later about the arrival of David. All of us students were always welcomed by your family in your home – what a blessing! Fr James was much respected and loved by us all who attended worship services at Peradeniya, but I must say that I had many friends and acquaintances in the various halls of residence – of all faiths - who were also only too ready and willing to pop in when Fr James was visiting, and enjoy some moments in his company. We pray that you all will be comforted in your loss, and that the pleasant memories of a much loved Priest, husband, and father will sustain you at this time, and in the days to come. Yours very sincerely, David Thomas

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My deepest sympathies to all the members of the family. Many clergy have fond memories of the Rev. Canon James Ratnanayagam. I myself can remember him in the mid-1980s when he preached at St. Luke’s Church Borella on a few occasions. I was privileged to follow a Tafti course under his mentorship and guidance. There were very senior clergy who joined this study group, to name a few of them, Revd. Corban Lee, Revd. Lloyd Weerasuriya, Revd. Chrisantha Mendis, Revd. Suresh Dias Bandaranaike. When he was Vicar at Holy Trinity Church, Wellawatte, I can very well remember what he taught us in this class and there was such fun as well. He was an excellent teacher and knew theology and how to answer theological questions. I can also remember he gave us a document on Principles of Life. This document had 13 points. Some time ago, I was able to trace this document which he gave to us in 1988. I recollect his speeches when he addressed the Diocesan Council synods and his memorably quoting Paul Tilich, one of the greatest theologians and influential thinkers of the 20th century in saying, "the unchanging truth should be interpreted in the changing world". I am certain along with me, many clergy and laity will have precious memories about what he has done for the church, and together with Aunty Latika as well. The diocese will miss him a lot. May his soul rest in peace and rise in glory. Rev. Adrian Aaron

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Rev. Adrian Aaron saying prayers on the occasion of Fr. James and Latika's 50th Wedding Anniversary (19th April 2015)

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Fr.James was very close to our family. My parents were very fond of him. Many stories that he used to relate are still ringing in our ears. He had a unique way of mixing English & Tamil to make the story very interesting. He was a wonderful and dedicated priest. He used to visit us often at home and never failed to visit mummy when we were in Dubai. He fondly called her 'amma'. Fr. James was our parish priest at St. Michael and All Angels'. He delivered the homily on 'Ruth 1:16' 41years ago at our wedding, which we still remember and has a great impact on our lives. He also took the service at our 25th wedding anniversary and said the closing prayers at Shivlal's wedding, though he was not too well at that time. Aiya had a wonderful life and was blessed with a loving and caring family. Now he is safe in the arms of Jesus free of all pain and suffering. With much love and prayers. May his soul rest in peace. Mohan & Shanti David

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My brother and I have very fond memories of Uncle James as we fondly called him. Aunty Lathika and our mom (late Mrs Dora Boteju) taught at Methodist College together and were very, very close friends. Uncle James on many occasions has come home and prayed at my parents anniversaries, birthdays etc. etc. Uncle James always had a great sense of humour. One day I wanted Uncle James to come and pray over our new office. So I picked him up and after the opening dropped him home. Thereafter every time I met him he used to bully me and say “ Hope the people who go in your car are fully insured” as he had gone home and told aunty Lathika that I drive very fast. His command of the English language was amazing too and he also had a lovely voice. We thank God for his life and a life lived well surrounded by his beautiful children and grand kids. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. With our fond love and prayers - Enakshi & Malik Dilshan & Manik

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I have very fond memories of Rev James, Aunty Latika and the kids. Our friend and family circles intersected on many levels but he was also our Parish Priest for some of the best years of our life in Colombo. I never tired of listening to his sermons, flawlessly delivered with perfect diction and invariably spiced with anecdotes from his time in Malaysia. He was the quintessential Anglican Parish priest and a good shepherd to his flock. Fr James was gentle yet firm, humble yet able to command your attention when he walked into a room. Whilst it is sad to have lost a man of such stature, I am thankful to have had him touch our lives. Whilst Fr James will undoubtedly be missed by Aunty Latika, Deveshta, Prasadini and David, they can rest assured that he lives on in our hearts. Much Love, Vasee

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Dear Latika, I heard the sad news of the demise of Father James this morning and am writing to convey our condolences to you and all the family. We knew he was seriously ill so it seems God in His mercy has called him to his eternal rest freeing him from all pain and suffering. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time especially when you do not have your children with you to comfort and sustain you. Father James was such a good friend to us. We have known you both for many years and will never forget your joint goodness to us over the years. He was the first on the scene when my parents died within three months of each other and conducted both the funeral and memorial services. That was 1978. As you know we have kept in touch over the years, never failing to visit you whenever we came to Sri Lanka on holiday from the UK. When we celebrated Sam's 80th birthday with the family in Sri Lanka, it was Father James who took the service and we would not have had it any other way. His and your Christmas letters which we looked forward to until a few years ago brought us so much joy and hope. You were always such good friends. We are so thankful that God gave us the opportunity to see you both when were in Sri Lanka in February. I will never forget Father James actually calling me by my name (even though it was soon forgotten) as well as the beautiful prayer he said as we were leaving. It brought tears to my eyes - reflecting on that now it seems as if he was saying farewell to us. What a blessing that we were able to see you both then. Fr. James was and will always be a legend in more ways than we can imagine. His command of the English language, his oratory skills and most of all his beautiful spontaneous prayers will long be etched in our memories. To us as a family, both of you have been a great source of strength and support on numerable occasions. How can we ever forget such a colossus! With our love and prayers for your health and comfort at this difficult time, Nirmala and Sam (Williams)

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Dear Latika, As you know, despite my long periods of working life away from Sri Lanka for over 40 years, it was always a joy for me to be in touch with you and Father James, however erratic that contact may have been. Father James was my lifelong friend and faithful pastor of great wisdom and humility, not to mention wit and humour. He was a constant source of inspiration to me through time. You and I have talked, more often in recent years, as well as when Father James was in hospital prior to his return home. We spoke on the day that you said your final farewell, the day after your 55th wedding anniversary, as you told me then. I appreciated your courage and will in talking to me that day, even as I marvelled at what was a testament to the beautiful partnership that had stood the test of time. I keep many happy memories of a great man, loving husband, father and grandfather, and am thankful that I had the opportunity, however limited, of meeting all the family - not to mention your pet dogs! - when I visited your home on different occasions during my less frequent visits to Sri Lanka after the death of my mother. I am reminded of Father James' powerful choice of words, whether in conversation or in prayer, and I hold on to particular memory of his visit when my mother died in Colombo, as he voiced his words of assurance - for us all - that death was ‘only a horizon beyond which we cannot see’… My last trip to Sri Lanka was in July 2017, when I also brought dear Audrey Rebera along for a couple of visits and we were all able to ‘catch up’ as our memories allowed… Since then, each time I called on the telephone I was privileged to receive Father James’ blessing - sometimes with a reminder from you! - at the end of each conversation. This was of great importance to me, something that I already miss when I call your home… I hold to the joys of my youth and CCYM Conferences of which Father James was an indelible memory, not, in simple terms, for his theme song Oh Raja Ram but for his inspiring leadership and valued contribution to the success of all Christian fora in which he played a part. Just two weeks ago, when a few friends paid me a ‘lockdown visit’ in my garden, I had the opportunity to talk to them about Father James and I actually taught them the tune and words of Oh Raja Ram! This song, as did the fine words and profound philosophy of Father James, has crossed many borders, I am sure… Latika, even while I continue to pray for your good health and safety, I extend the promise of my continuing contact, to the extent that my own health and God allow. I am secure in the knowledge that your lovely family watches over you during and after Lockdown, even as does your own personal guardian angel. With my love and many blessings, Ginny. (Ginny Rogers)

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Saying Grace at our wedding reception 22 years ago

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Fr James marrying Stephen and Mayanthi

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Our fondest memories of Fr James was when we attended his ‘preparation for marriage’ course almost 23 years ago. We still remember the nuggets of wisdom he passed on to us. Including how the best marriages are between a manly woman and a womanly man or a womanly woman and a manly man but not between a manly women and a manly man etc. We will never forget his powerful yet gentle presence, his beautiful strong voice as he officiated at our wedding and his self depreciating sense of humour. Steve & Maya

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We were deeply saddened to hear of the demise of our much loved priest Father James. He has been our spiritual mentor, a wonderful priest and a friend of the family. Father James had a wonderful sense of humour, he was warm and Sincere. He was a peoples person and related easily to anyone. He was eloquent having an excellent command of the language and his sermons were inspiring. The investment of the word of God that Father James made, and his kindness and giving spirit touched many lives not only members of the Christian community. He gave of his time and his life was committed in Gods service. We had the privilege of knowing Father James for nearly four decades. He has been the priest our family turned to whether it was for a blessing, for prayer, officiating at many a happy occasion from Baptisms , to preparing my daughters for confirmation, or officiating at weddings in our family to ministering at the bedside when family members were sick or performing the last rites. He was available at any time of the day or night. Our family owes him a debt of gratitude for his friendship, his pastoral care and service and his spiritual encouragement and support spanning nearly 40 years. He will live on in our memories. Our heartfelt condolences to Aunty Lathika, Prasadini, Deveshta , Jayadeva and their families, May God give you the comfort, strength and courage and enfold you in his love at this difficult time. May the soul of Father James Rest in Peace The Ekanayakas - Nihal, Leonie, Sarita, and Devinka Seneviratne, Glynis & Ishi, Rochelle and Surinda Gunawardena

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Fr. James baptizes Devinka Seneviratne at the Church of St Francis of Assisi, Mount Lavinia

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Fr. James at Devinka Seneviratne's baptism

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Father James officiating at an Ekanayaka family occasion.

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Nirmali and I would like to express our condolences to Lathika ,Prasdini, David and Devishka and others. I first met Fr. James at the CCYM Conference in Batticaloa where he sang his famous Rajaram. He was an excellent Preacher, always with a clear message to take home. My mother and I used to follow him on successive Good Fridays to hear him speak in terms of different characters in the Passion- Judas, Peter , the Centurion, etc He was a good Pastor regularly visiting his parishioners, especially the sick. When my Mother in Law (Ariadne Gogerly Moragoda) fell sick he was by her side to say prayers. He did the same with her husband (Alfie).His prayers had the same style as the1662 Book of Common Prayer but personalized for the occasion. He and I agreed on many theological matters that either he or I presented as Resolutions in Diocesan Council.I t was such pleasure to discuss anything with Fr. James as he had a clear incisive mind. Above all ,Fr. James struck me as a holy Priest. He would always say the traditional Morning and Evening Prayer Offices in addition to other prayers. As result he knew his Psalms by memory. .Farewll my friend, I have no doubt that you Rest In Peace in the presence of the Lord, awaiting to Rise in Glory on the Last Day. Narme and Nirmali Wickremesinghe

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As a classmate and friend from schooldays at St John's College Jaffna, I have many memories of him. He won the Oratorical contest at our school. His Christian halfhour was one programme I never missed. The message, and music assisted by his daughter was one of the best I have listened to. " Old soldiers never die, they just pass away". Dr Samuel Jeyaratnam, Talawakelle

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I would like to add a few words to the online memorial book, as I have so many nice memories of dear Father James. He was my mother Leila's cousin, his sister Pathma was married to my uncle H.L.D Selvaratnam, and Sita and I were flowergirls for their wedding, . I remember Rosie Mamie, Father James's mother (my grandfather's sister ) very well. Father James was always an important and imposing figure at all family gatherings, larger than life, a commanding presence,with his loud voice, impressive diction and unforgettable words. It was with his help that my son, Yohan and nephew Indrajit became students at STC Prep. Lathika and I were classmates at Ladies College, I remember her as a great comedian on stage. But what I really wanted to share is this memory. Talking about death, Father James used this story, which I have always remembered. He told us he had some good friends in Kandy, and if there was some meeting he had to attend in Kandy, he called them, and was always warmly welcomed , with a nice meal prepared for him. But on one occasion, he had no time to let them know he was going to Kandy. When the meeting ended, he went to his friends home, rather late, and feeling bad. But as he knocked on the door, his friend opened it with a smile, and said " James, we knew you would come !." Father James said that is how it will be when we are called home, and I know he would have been welcomed by the Lord with those same words -'' James, we knew you would come''.How wonderful - thank and praise God for Father James's life, and his great faith in God. My love and blessings to Lathika and the family. Nalini Ismail

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Dear Latika, It was with the deepest sorrow that we read of the death of our beloved Father James; friend and mentor; true example of a disciple of our Lord. His positive; cheerful attitude and sense of fun was an inspiration to us both. To many of us in the youth movement he was the flame that drew us like moths to read, question and understand in new ways old truths in the Gospels in those early bible studies at the Conferences. Most of all we cherish the memory of his deep faith and spirituality, his intelligence, knowledge and his skills as a teacher. As a dear friend he was present at many significant occasions in our lives. Karol's ordination; our wedding; the baptism of our first child; to name a few. I recall vividly, him and Fr. Baldwin taking time out of Synod to visit us - so many laughs. He never missed the gatherings we had on each visit to Sri Lanka. At the last one held at Eddie and Sneha Appathurai's home, he tried valiantly to remember the words of Oh Raja Ram since we had forgotten them. How grateful we are that we were able to visit you both last December. I have the photographs to cherish. I am attaching one for inclusion in the book. We loved him. We are so much the richer for having known him and thank God that he has walked with us and left an indelible footprint on our lives. May he rest in peace and rise in glory. We keep you in our prayers dear Latika. May the everlasting arms of God be around you to strengthen and sustain you. With our love, Karol and Deanna (Misso)

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Father James and Latika with the Rev. Karol and Mrs Deanna Misso. December 2019. (Picture contributed by Karol and Deanna Misso)

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It is with sense of deep gratitude that I pen few lines about my association with father Ratnanayagam. I came to know father when I was10 years of age while staying at the Evelyn Nursries Kandy. Aunty Lathika is my God mother. I remember well how father and Aunty used to pick me up from the Nurseries every Friday and take me to their homeThe Vicarage of the University of Peradeniya for the weekends. I looked forward to their visits to their home as I felt welcomed and loved by Aunty and Father. At that time Prasadini was about one year old and I used to go for walks and play with her. When Aunty and Father moved to St Micheals vicarage I spend few years with them and helped to take care of David. I started my journey to live on my own. Father has been a 'real father' to me in my growing up togeather with Aunty. I appriciate all his prayers on my behalf and sound advice he gave me whenever I needed guidance. I know he is with God and singing all his favourite hyms. Thank you God for giving me the oppertunity to know father. Our condolences to Aunty, Prasadini and Ricky, Devishta, David, Helen, Grace and Toby. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Ira, Erik and Emily

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In 1959,when we were eighth graders, we sat the Northern Province Teacher's Association (NPTA) examination.This led to our promotion to High School where we were in a new class with a new timetable.We were especially excited about our English lessons and sir was our new English teacher. The first time sir took our English lessons, he was an excellent role model as a smart young man wearing a bush shirt, pressed trousers and, in general, was neatly dressed. As well as his immaculate presentation, he made a strong impression through his clear, ' received pronunciation ' ( what some may call ' posh English'. ) This clear pronunciation was alien to us as we had not heard such accents. Sir also never mixed any Tamil words and spoke throughout in English.Either by accident or design,his wearing of light sun glasses and the squint in his eyes meant that we did not know who he was looking at while he was talking and he was quick to master the names of all his students. Sir was an effective educator who had excellent classroom management. This meant that the atmosphere in his class was attentive. There was the understanding that we had to do our work but he was firm but kind. He developed our confidence in English by ensuring all explanation was in English and, gradually, our confidence grew in speaking and writing English. An observation I made was that his commitment to correct language extended outside of the classroom where he would speak to junior staff at school in pure grammatical Tamil. He amazed us young students by appearing to have a photographic memory of our English book, as he never carried any teaching notes and appeared to know where we had finished at the last lesson.Sir also encouraged us to become self- reliant learners as we were encouraged to carry a small Oxford English dictionary. We were quite often made to check the dictionary to improve our command of spelling and definitions of words. As a teacher, he kept us on our toes and, quite often, students were asked at random to stand up and read the set text.He used this opportunity to correct pronunciation, diction and the emphasis of our reading. When the reading was finished, he would summarise the reading to consolidate our understanding. One situation I can remember where this happened to me was when I was reading a passage from Treasure Island by Robert Louis Stevenson. As I was reading the word 'Quay ', I read it phonetically( as I saw it written) and sir said, 'Royce stop stop '.I was a bit surprised.Sir leapt up to the blackboard took the chalk where he wrote the following: QUAY = KEY The students were a bit confused. Sir made us all write in our books what he had put on the blackboard. He instilled in us this important lesson that written English is not always phonetic and we need to be wary of exceptions such as these.Sir also intstilled in us the importance of English as a world language and helped us improve our command of the language which I believe has served us well later on in our lives. Later on, we were thrilled to notice that he was our school chaplain. Every Wednesday morning we walked in line to our school church, St John the Baptist Church and sat quietly. This weekly service was also attended by the girls from our sister school, Chundikuli Girls' College. A memory that sticks in my mind was the tuneful singing voices of the choir girls and sir's reaching the roof of the church. His sermons were clear and simple which led to understanding for us. Later, I became the chapel prefect and was much more involved in our school services. My association with sir did not end at St.John's College, Jaffna. The Johnians and Chundikuli girls who entered Peradeniya university were thrilled to invite him as Chaplain of the University. Obviously this led to regular attendance of his services.However, soon after service I got back to our halls of residence, in my case Mars Hall to not miss the dinner ! Once sir noticed that I had not attended service for two consecutive Sundays. During the middle of the week, he came to Mars hall and knocked on my door.I opened the door and was surprised to see him. He said he had come to see his 'Lost sheep !' I explained to him that I had to be at the maternity ward delivery room in Kandy hospital to record the deliveries I had taken part in in the record book. After I started working at the Jaffna Teaching Hospital, our contact was lost sadly for a while.However during Christmas periods, greetings were exchanged. When I got married , I requested he helped conduct our wedding.Sir kindly agreed and delivered the sermon. It was the icing on the cake for my relationship with sir.He was also very well known to my wife's family as well.My wife's father was the late Rev Snell.Sir conducted the funeral service of my wife's brother Haran Snell. Haran was also at Peradeniya University. He also conducted the funeral service of my mother in law. I knew sir's parents , Dr and Mrs Richards and his siblings. His sister was Mrs I R Ariyaratnam and another sister I knew as Sita Richards ( Mrs. Wijeyarajah). I have seen his brother as well. Mr and Mrs Ariyaratnam's children were known to me and to my younger brother.My younger brother was also at Peradeniya University. We all lived down Navalar Road, Nallur Jaffna. Quite often during my school days , I have seen sir riding his bicycle up and down in his cassock.I last met him few years ago in his cathedral bungalow. Sir was a great English teacher, disciplinarian and maintained a high standard of Christian attitudes. Aunty and children should be very proud of him. We will meet again. Dr Royce Arasaratnam Bedford. United Kingdom

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Dear Auntie Latika and cousins, I would like to express my sympathy on behalf of the Kanagasabai family. My late mother, Leila Selvaratnam Kanagasabai, was Father James’ first cousin. She had many tales of the close interactions among the cousins who all lived very close to each other in Jaffna, and played together on a daily basis. She often told the story of the day when the Richards family returned to Jaffna after being interned in Malaya (as it was then known) during WW2. I think your dad would have been a very young man at the time, and if I remember rightly it was during this experience in the camp that he was called to the ministry. He officiated at many of the milestone events in our family. I remember him preaching at my dear mother’s funeral. He also officiated at my wedding to Mahinda and at my late brother Lucky’s wedding to Damayanthi. We lost Lucky in January, as you may have heard. I remember Uncle James as a big man in every sense: his distinctive stature, booming voice and commanding diction, and above all his capacious and generous heart. He simply radiated loving kindness to all. Rest In Peace. Affectionate regards to all the family, Rini (Suvendrini) Perera

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Fond memories from Sydney Knight. It was very comforting indeed that when I spoke to Lathika, after having heard about Father James' death, she said, "Sydney, our James lived a good life." Father James was very close to our family over the years and has been a great source of strength to me, personally, at times of need. He has been a friend, confidante, and mentor. I will always remember him with great love. Our prayers are with Lathika, Prashadini and Ricky, Deveshta, Jayadeva, Helen, Grace and Toby.

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A Life well spent in God's service written by an old friend. I have known Fr James for many years. My parents were both teachers at St Johns and James came to teach there so I knew of him. But we really got to know each other and become friends when we both acted in a play (Lady Windermere's Fan by Oscar Wilde) St Johns produced. James had a commanding voice and spoke so well he was a hit. Soon after I left for Peradeniya and he left for England to study for ministry. When I met him after his return from England he narrated a story which showed how witty he was. While travelling by train in England he got talking to a little old lady who asked him what he was doing there. He told her he was at university studying theology. The lady remarked "How nice, and how many natives are there with you there?" To which he replied "Madam they are all natives I alone am a foreigner!" After I graduated I started as teacher at Chundikuli and when James returned he became the chaplain at St Johns. After I married my husband Ariam Niles and I visited James at his abode at St Johns called the Armory from time to time. He was an entertaining person and we had such interesting and God honouring talks. There were gaps in our meeting each other because I moved after a short stint at teaching to take up an appointment at the University in Peradeniya. But then Fr James came to the university as chaplain. By this time he was married to Latika who I knew from SCM camps we attended and perhaps when we were students although she was junior to me. So we continued to meet them and socialise with them. All the time I knew Fr James I knew about his deep commitment to God and a strong desire to serve Him. I always felt challenged and up lifted by his preaching. He was very articulate and had a accent which was the envy of all of us. Although we didn't live in the same place all the time we did keep in touch. At one time in the early 1980s I went to teach in Nigeria. It was a very troubling experience. When I was home I met Fr James one day and after listening to my tale of woe he asked me' "So, Sushila what did you learn from this experience? I replied "I learnt more about God. about other people and about myself". We moved to Australia but always tried to visit Latika and James whenever we returned to Sri Lanka for a visit. We enjoyed good friendship and appreciated what a true servant of God he was. One last comment I would like to make is ; Once while we caught up with him he told us that at a funeral the officiating priest instead of saying the phrase "in the midst of life we are in death" had said "in the midst of death we are in life". At this time it is appropriate to ponder on this thought. Fr James has now attained new life and is now resting from his labour. As it says in Revelations 14:13 Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord from now on "yes" says the Spirit. "they will rest from their labour for their deeds will follow them" My deepest heartfelt sympathies to Latika and the children. Sushila Niles

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Deveshta and Prasadhini, our deepest sympathies. I was saddened to hear of the passing of Fr James, your beloved father. Please convey our condolences to your brother, David, too, and the rest of your family. We are sorry that (being under lock down/curfew) we were unable to be there for your mother, Mrs Ratnanayagam, or even to sing for Fr James and bid him farewell - he so enjoyed our choir. I always looked for him and Mrs R seated together at Sunday morning service. We at Methodist College were very privileged to know Fr James - he was often at our school events, and preached at special services and morning prayers occasionally - perhaps as a result of his wife's connection with MC. Your mother was my English teacher. Our generation of MCites absolutely loved Fr James - such a warm, humble and caring person, with impeccable manners and a great sense of humour. His sermons, delivered in that rich voice, were a delight, and very inspiring. His diction (with his lovely British accent) was excellent. We don't have many priests of his great calibre any more. May he rest in peace. Shalini Fernando

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Dear Aunty Latika , Prasadini, David and family, Deveshta, The very first time I met Rev. Fr. J R Ratnanayagam was at my workplace. He was a regular customer at a Bank in Wellawatte. One particular morning he met me and discussed the requirements for opening an account for Deveshta, and on the next day introduced her to me and said how important it was for young women to be independent and it started with learning how to manage your money. I agreed wholeheartedly! He was so cheerful and had a very good word for you each time he met you. The next time was when he became my Vicar at my Parish and helped me to baptize my children as they were only dedicated at birth. And his help, assistance, visits continued as I faced certain challenges in my life as a young mum and wife. I looked forward to listening to his visits to see me and my kids and listening to his advice. His commitment to his sheep was evident in every word and thought and action. He was so kind. I will never forget him. May he rest in peace and rise in glory. Angela Gnaniah Parishioner CHURCH OF THE GOOD SHEPHERD COL5.

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Father James baptizes Angela Gnaniah's son at the Church of the Good Shepherd.

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Those CCYM Annual conferences of the 1960s era and the terrific impact Father James' had on us delegates both spiritually and musically comes to mind. In January 2011 when Father Karol Misso and Deanna were on holiday in Sri Lanka Sneha and I hosted a dinner for a few of the old CCYMers at our home in Mount Lavinia followed by the usual sing song. Father James contributed with his signature song 'Old Raja Ram" . More importantly the Thank You card he posted to us a few days later was most touching and speaks of his trait. May Light Perpetual Shine upon him. Eddie and Sneha Appathurai

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Those CCYM Annual conferences of the 1960s era and the terrific impact Father James had on us delegates both spiritually and musically comes to mind. In January 2011 when Father Karol Misso and Deanna were on holiday in Sri Lanka Sneha and I hosted a dinner for a few of the old CCYMers at our home in Mount Lavinia followed by the usual sing song. Father James contributed with his signature song 'Old Raja Ram" . More importantly the Thank You card he posted to us a few days later was most touching and speaks of his trait. May the Heaven Light Shine on him. Eddie and Sneha Appathurai

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Dear Lathika and Children please accept our deepest condolences on your loss. Father James’ passing is a loss to all of us as well. Although I knew of Rev. James Ratnanayagam during my school days, I got know him closely after he became the university chaplain at Peradeniya. I had the privilege of being the secretary of the Student Christian Movement of which Father James was the patron and this brought me closer to him than before. I can never forget his pastoral care and words of guidance that strengthened the faith. We did always look forward to the Sunday evening services and the fellowship that followed. Lathika and Father James were always graceful and gracious hosts and shining examples of Christian Stewardship. Father James’ words to strengthen the faith can never be forgotten – “Safety is not only safety from storm – but also safety in storm” – That is, Christ is with us whatever the context. In 1972, Father James officiated in our engagement ceremony at Colombo. Sadly we had lost contact after we left for Australia in 1974/75. But he did leave behind a lasting memory. Dodo and Gowry

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Fr. James – Priest, Pastor and Prophet. When people recall Fr. James they often refer to his fine command of the English language and his well delivered sermons, his strong singing voice (in both Tamil and English) and his pastoral skills that built communities of trust wherever he served. While these are aspects about him we are never to forget, I wish to highlight another side to Fr. James that only a few may have known. This was his passion for an equal church. I vividly remember a stirring speech he made at Diocesan Council in favor of the ordination of women. His reasoning was known to have helped some with questions on women Priests, to change their minds in support of the resolution. On a previous occasion he spearheaded a resolution that limited the period a vicar could serve in a parish, to a maximum of eight years. This led to a better rotation of clergy and their skills among congregations. On still another occasion he eloquently supported an initiative that urged an equal Easter collection for all clergy. This in turn broke the previous practice of clergy receiving, the much or little, that their congregations offered at the Easter service. All this and more was possible because Fr James was a man of integrity. He could be trusted with the care of people and to do the right thing for the Body of Christ. In the finest Anglican tradition, Fr. James will consequently go down in history as a faithful Priest, Pastor and Prophet. May he be blessed in the fullest communion with the triune God, and may Lathika, Prashadini and Ricky, Deveshta, Jayadeva, Helen, Grace and Toby, rejoice with thanksgiving for the privilege of sharing in such a life, so intimately. Duleep de Chickera

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Father James with Bishop Duleep and Mrs de Chickera following the service to celebrate the 50th anniversary of his ordination to the priesthood. 22nd December, 2007.

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Fr James Ratnanayagam: A Personal Reflection Fr James, as he was fondly known, responded to his “Home Call” on Monday the 20th April 2020, soon after the Second Sunday after Easter. Fr James must have gone through his last two weeks with the events of the Resurrected Christ’s appearances to Mary Magdalene on Easter morning, afterwards in the evening to his disciples in the Upper Room (this time Thomas was not present), and a week later He appeared to all his disciples, and this time the doubting Thomas confessed in faith- “My Lord and my God!” Fr James would have reflected these on his sick bed, and he was ready to accept the call to eternity! He was 93, only two months short of reaching 94! Lathika (nee Samarasinha) his beloved wife and companion in ministry, and the children- Prasadini and Ricky Dekker (Dubai), Deveshta Ratnanayagam (Sydney), Jayadeva and Helen Ratnanayagam and their two kids - Grace and Toby (UK) living across the globe would have anticipated his willingness to such a possible response as he took ill only two weeks before! The day and the context of his departure was such that the family and the Bishop of Colombo decided to do the last rites at the Kanatte Crematorium in the afternoon with the assistance of the Archdeacon of Colombo. This must have been a difficult and painful experience for the loved ones to bid farewell to their loving and affectionate husband, Dad and Granddad and father-in-law. But to the numerous past parishioners, close friends and family, and to his fellow colleagues in ministry, his passing would have evoked a series of reflection of fond memories of his kind and genuine acts of love! We thank God for his long, active and fruitful life and ministry in the Church and community in 20th century Sri Lanka (Ceylon). I first came to know Fr James as the Chaplain at St Johns College Jaffna while I was a student at Jaffna College in the 1960’s. He was one of the leading guest speakers at different forums - YMCA, SCM, JICCF camps and retreats, Cathedral Vesper Services and in Pentecost festivals at the Christa Seva Ashram Chunnakam. Also under the auspices of Jaffna Christian Union, Fort Church Conventions attracted outstanding Christian leaders like Bishops Sabapathy Kulandran, Lakshman Wickremasinghe, Rev D T Niles, Rev James Ratnanayagam, Rev A J C Selvaratnam, Messrs. G N Edwards, K G Arasaratnam, R E J A Sethukavalar, K Nesiah and Pooranampillai, and also from overseas as well. The organisers were mainly the College Principals and missionaries including Chaplain Mr Ben Bavinck at Jaffna College, Vaddukoddai. Fr James was a handsome, tall and elegant gentleman. His talks and preaching were full of stories and anecdotes, humour and theological insights. I thought he mastered all three languages of the nation- Sinhala, Tamil and English, but I am told he hardly could speak Sinhala! He graduated from Madras Christian College (MCC), and later pursued his theological studies in England. His knowledge of English and accent was British. His wide reading and passion for Anglican Liturgy was evident in his presentations at lectures and worship. As far as I know, he spoke Tamil with words and phrases of his era; they were fascinating to listen to. His theological outlook and churchmanship revolved around Anglo-Catholic Liturgy and theologians of his student days and adulthood. He embraced Asian and Latin-American Liberation theologies, focussing on justice and peace for all communities. But he was against the use of violence in freedom struggles and promoted peaceful means of dialogue and negotiation to achieve harmony and peace with justice. My association with Fr James became very close when I served the Church in Colombo from 1987 until 1991 residing at the Parsonages in 39 Fussels Lane and 17 Frances Rd, Wellawatta. He was then stationed at Holy Trinity Wellawatta. As I was the only CSI minister in Colombo, Fr James became my confidant, guide and he offered pastoral support to me. It was war years when travelling between Jaffna and Colombo became impossible and communications were cut off. In these circumstances I found it difficult to communicate with my bishop in Jaffna, except occasional letters passed between us through those who travelled back and forth for emergency needs. In return for his kind services to me in ministry, I offered to occasionally lead Tamil worship in his church, while he blessed the bread and wine. In addition, I was able to take him around for ‘Home Communion’ on Sundays once a month soon after our morning services were over. To my satisfaction, whenever my bishop happened to come to Colombo, I took him to meet Fr James which he cherished on every occasion. As a result, Fr James was able to get first-hand information on what exactly was happening in the North! In 1995, I and my family migrated to Australia at the invitation of the Anglican Archbishop of Melbourne to minister to and with the Tamil Christian Congregation of Victoria (TCCV), of which Rev A J C Selvaratnam served from its inception in 1981 until 1992. He was unhappy that we were leaving the homeland and the home church for ‘greener pastures’, however, he prayed with us and blessed us on our leaving the shores. We visited him and Lathika every time we returned to Sri Lanka to catch up with our siblings and friends. They were delighted to see us and happy to know of past parishioners of theirs in Melbourne. It was in February 2019, we met them at his residence within the Cathedral premises. Our memories of Fr James will remain with us until we receive “our home call.” May the Crucified and Risen Lord grant his loved ones comfort and consolation at this time of grieving! May Fr James find rest eternal! Rev Prem and Yogi Premarajah

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Rev. James Ratnanayagam As many of you will know, he was a teacher and [St John’s] College Chaplain during the mid 1950's to mid 1960's. He lived in the small school house inside the school on Old Park Road overlooking the grounds. He was single then and wore sunglasses most of the time to protect his poor eyesight. He was a strict teacher with a short temper whilst displaying generosity from time to time. As a boarder and chapel prefect around 1963 I had a lot of interactions with him and even knew his emergency sermons. His melodious voice and English accent were admired by many. Kulan Mills

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My condolences on the passing away of Rev. James Ratnanayagam. I remember him very well as a perfect gentleman with a good sense of humour and yes, we used to sit on the front steps of his house and watch the cricket matches. He was an eloquent speaker and his talks at morning assembly and sermons at church were a treat to listen to. Anton Nathanael

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1999 - Nugegoda - Fr James and Perera family at Foundation stone laying for home of Dushy & Tanya

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Dear Latika, It’s been 3 days since James passed away. I couldn’t bring myself to speak to you or even write to you till now. I feel as though I have suffered 2 bereavements in a short space of time- losing Amirtha last month and the death this month of James,a dear cousin and very dear friend. What can I write to you at this time? If is easy to sprinkle the usual words like “sympathy “and “condolence “all over the letter but they are too hackneyed to reach the heart of personal grief or bring real consolation. Apart from your faith, it is memories,even if they are heartbreaking at first,that will ultimately bring comfort and acceptance. That is how I am trying to come to terms with the death of Amirtha and that of James. There is so much to remember about him-his imposing presence,his deep faith,his eloquence (“the best preacher in the country”in the words of the late Ranji Senanayake.),his infectious friendliness,his readiness to help anyone who needed help,his humility in the way he treated his carers and the domestic helpers, his deep love of his family and so much more. Someday, when I can bring myself to engage in “anecdotage” about him without becoming emotional,maybe I will share some hilarious memories of him. He has gone where he belongs and I like to believe that the rafters of heaven must be reverberating to the sound of his roof-shaking laughter ! Love to you all from me, Punitha,and the families of Savithiri and Jeeva. J.H. Ariaratnam.

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My heart rejoices as fond memories of Fr.James flood my mind. I don’t remember ever leaving his presence feeling low. Such a vibrant, life giving spirit he had. Growing up in the Church of St. Francis, I was the listener who enjoyed his conversation and then, my Confirmation classes. Subsequently, my husband recalls, that Fr. James even wanted to meet him before we got married. Such a father he was. I thank God with all my heart for Fr.James, for all his gifts and self, shared generously with the Church and with his loving family who supported him in his journey through life. My father and he connected beautifully from CCYM days. We know and take comfort that today, they are blissfully happy in the nearer presence of the Lord probably singing with gusto - Oh rajaram, Oh rajaram, Oh.. singma lingma gloriam, oh raja ram! Niromi Abayasekera Wikkramatilleke

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Fr. James with close friends Sepala and Sunethra Illangakoon. 22nd December, 2007

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Fr James with his brothers David and Emmanuel (whom he affectionately referred to as Thambi and Babu) after his 50th ordination anniversary service.

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Your Dad was unique in his life. Well respected in his ministry. He was our school chaplain when I was a teenager.I remember him on his bicycle passing me when I used to walk from Chundikuli girls college back home. He would surprise me by wishing me from behind. Though he had difficulty with his vision he knew who it was even when coming from behind! When we were in University we moved with your parents at the Peradeniya campus,as your Ayya was our campus chaplain. He was such a blessing to us. He was approachable and had a loving disposition. We will miss him too. We remember him for his wit and narration of old stories and his caring ways. Visiting the campus chaplaincy we got to know Lathika as well. When we got married he solemnised our marriage. Lathika was my daughter Niroshini’s Godmother and I had the privilege of being your Godmother Deveshta. We managed to keep in touch though we moved around a bit and were continents apart! I’m including a photo taken when we met your parents last and were so delighted to meet with your sister Prasadini and brother Jeyadeva who were visiting at that time. May the Lord's comfort and peace be with you. John 14:27. With our love, Ranjit and Savitri John

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I thank God for my friend, teacher and Good shepherd who filled my life with his spirit of joy. He was one of my chief mentors throughout my life. I have known Father James from the age of 8. His father Dr Richards was our GP and lived down our road in Nallur, Jaffna. As children at St Johns college we looked up to him with awe and addressed him as Rev Ratnanayagam. I had the good fortune that he was my university chaplain while at medical college at Peradeniya. I found any excuse to visit frequently on Sundays after chapel service and other days. It was always a joy to visit your Ayya and Amma, as the home was thrown open and I have shared many a meal freely given. I knew I had been accepted as a friend when I was allowed to play his very precious gramophone and listen to his records, allowed to wheel Prasidini in her pram and start the car when they were away to keep the car charged. He introduced me to aerobics, a 5 BX Canadian Air Force keep fit programme that has stood me in good stead throughout my life. He officiated at my wedding when I married Shereen and also baptised my youngest son Daniel. Although I came to the Uk in 1979, one of my highlights has always been visiting your Parents. I shall miss him. Although lately his memory was fading, the joy of the Lord was always present in him. I was truly blessed by his presence in my life and I am greatful to Lathika Prasadini Deveshta and Jayadeva for being able to share him with all of us. I thank God for Father James, a great shepherd of the Lord. I look forward to meeting him again in God's good time. Rajan Jesudason

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Dear Aunty Latika, Prasadhini, Devishta, Jayadeva and families, We were much saddened to hear of the home calling of Father James as he was affectionately known by our families , some days ago. My mother Esther Sivaprakasam, and siblings Christopher, Michael and Christine, along with my husband Lakshman and myself( Naomi) and our familes , send our thoughts, prayers and deepest condolences to you all at this time of grief and loss of such a wonderful man of God, who was husband and father to you all. Father James was to us, a well- loved Father in Christ, an uncle to Lakshman( cousin to his parents Rethy and Kunchu Selvaratnam) a dear friend and counsellor to our parents( Paul and Esther Sivaprakasam), and to our aunt and uncle ( George and Joyce Gnanamuttu) . His care, concern and genuine involvement in the lives of each one who came under his pastoral care, was truly legendary; and his large shepherd’s heart reflected that of our Great Shepherd . One such time was during the ’83 riots when he risked his own life in sheltering many of his relatives and flock who lived in the vicinity As children growing up in the parish of St Michael and All Angel’s Polwatte where he was Vicar, his ‘larger than life’ presence in church , passionate faith in his Lord and Saviour, fervent prayers, inspiring sermons in impeccable diction, booming baritone voice raised in song, and on frequent visits to our home, impassioned discussions over things that mattered, keen wit and resonant hearty laugh as he wholeheartedly celebrated life’s milestones, ups and downs with us, are vividly etched in our memories. He took an individual interest in our development, cheering, encouraging and actively supporting our involvement in church life; whether as choristers, organists and musicians, or budding altar boys, aspiring actors or artists in church dramas and productions . He prepared us for confirmation, watching over our spiritual development with personal interest long after we emerged as communicants, and when the time came was a key and enthusiastic player in events leading upto Lakshman and my engagement and wedding ,delivering a thought provoking homily that impacted us both and we remember to this day. Father James and my Dad Paul- a friend he held dear, shared a deep love for their Alma Mater- St John’s College, Jaffna, and for singing a wealth of treasured hymns .When Daddy was called home, it was his grieving friend Father James, who ministered at the funeral. His love and adoration of Aunty Latika was always evident, who with her calm strength, beauty and grace complemented and supported one other in life and ministry so beautifully. So was his devotion and pride in you three children who will bear and carry on steadfastly and admirably, his rich and enduring legacy . We join with you and countless others whose lives he touched, in celebrating his remarkable and outstanding life of service and in grieving his passing . We pray for our heavenly Father’s comfort, love and grace to envelop, sustain and carry you ,being secure in the knowledge that as heaven receives with great joy, a servant minister, ardent worshiper and much loved son, a glorious resurrection awaits dear Father James, at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. Our loss here on earth is truly heaven’s gain. With love and prayers, Lakshman & Naomi Selvaratnam

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Father James is my friend Deveshta’s beloved Aiyya (dad). My memories of Father James, goes back to my school days when I used to visit the family regularly during their time at Holy Trinity Church Wellawatte. Many afternoons after school would be spent in their lovely home. I always felt at home and the whole family was very warm and welcoming. Father James and Mrs Ratnanayagam would always be interested in what we did and be very supportive. I remember Father James as a gentle, kind and caring person who always had a word of encouragement or support. May God’s peace and love comfort you all during this time. Dinendra

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Aiyya with his beloved grandchildren - Malati Grace Ratnanayagam (in July 2014) and Tobias Christopher Ratnanayagam (in July 2018)

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15th August 2019 - “Being a family means you are a part of something very wonderful. It means you will love and be loved for the rest of your life.” –Lisa Weed

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During the last week we have been thinking a lot about the impact Fr. James and Latika had on our lives. Fifty years ago Fr. James, Latika and baby Prasadini moved into the chaplaincy at University of Peradeniya. Gnanan and I were a newly married couple in need of an apartment to rent and were fortunate to be able to move into the apartment at the chaplaincy. During the year we were at this apartment and the succeeding few years we and our daughter Manjula spent many wonderful hours with the Ratnanayagam family which included Prasadini and Deveshta. Thus began a friendship that lasted even after the Ratnanayagam family moved to Colombo and the Canagaratna family moved to the United States in 1983. Fr. James had a long association with the Rajamoney family. He was the chaplain at St. John's College, Jaffna while two of my brothers were students there. He came to know my parents while they were living with us in Peradeniya. When we left for the United States my parents moved to Colombo to be with my brother and sister in law. Fr. James treated my parents with a lot of respect and love. Many a time when they experienced a crisis, Fr. James was my go to person and he never failed to help resolve the issue. Knowing that I could contact Fr. James was such a great comfort and he was beloved by our family. Fr. James had a way with words and a mastery of the English Language that was just fantastic. We loved his sermons and could have listened to him for hours and not be bored. The sermons were lively, practical and memorable. The services were very inspirational. He practiced what he preached. We loved his wonderful sense of humor. I keep remembering his welcoming voice whenever we visited and the laughter during the visits. We treasure the hospitality shown to our entire family many many times. Fr. James was by far the best priest we have encountered. He was basically a wonderful human being who was thoughtful, considerate, and kind. His life was a reflection of the love of Christ. In the last sermon that I heard him preach he urged us to live with an attitude of gratitude. This is something I have tried to practice and in the spirit of this , I would like to end this remembrance with some of the things for which I am grateful. I give thanks to God for the life and the wonderful contributions of Fr. James. The lives he touched. The friendship that our family enjoyed with the Ratnanayagam family. Latika, Prasadini, Deveshta, and Jayadeva - you were indeed blessed to have had a loving and caring husband and father. I am sure that the many wonderful memories and the assurance that he is with God as well as the belief we will see him again will help ease your pain. Please accept our condolences and may God bless you all and give you his grace at this time. Much love to all of you. Gnanan and Indra

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Dear Lathika, I thank God for the care you and Fr. James showered on us at Peradeniya. We all so looked forward to coming up to Church each sunday, and Fr. James' hall visits which he never missed. Because of your love church was the best part of Peradeniya for me. He spoke beautifully. I was so happy to hear him mention the Jesus prayer which l was able to experience later when I was teaching at Peradeniya and living in Upper Hantana. He taught us to sing the liturgy, bit fancy for a Methodist. The campfire and freshers' welcome under him in those mountains were so ethereal. Your home was always open to us and you both kept us all together as one family. Fr. James was known to four generations of my family. My uncle Gnany and he were roommates in London. And you are the most gracious lady I have seen. Thank you both always. Father James served the church so well. All praise to God. Dushy Hoole (Asirwatham)

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Fr James as I knew him. As I heard of the passing away of Fr James and was thinking of him, two Bible verses flashed across my mind. One was John 1 : 6 – “there was a man sent from God whose name was John” and the other one, Ephesians 4 : 12 – “It is that God’s people will be equipped to do better work for him, building up the Church, the body of Christ,” I write this tribute with much thanks to our Lord for all that I had learnt from Fr James. I joined St John’s College, Jaffna in the G C E Advanced Level class in January 1962 and left in December 1963. These two years really enriched my life and strengthened my desire to serve our Lord in the Sacred Ministry. I was elected President of the Student Christian Movement and had so much to do in association with Fr James. He was a voracious leader. He had a set of Bible Commentaries, consisting of twelve volumes (a rare collection) and whole lot of Christian Books. He encouraged me to read some of those which prepared me for joining Bishop’s College, Calcutta for my Theological Training, from 1964 – 1967. Fr James was a good singer and he encouraged us to develop our singing to the glory of God. His chanting of the Liturgy, with his good tenor voice, added so much to the dignity of Divine Worship. The Annual Christmas Carol Service, conducted under his leadership, by the Choirs of St. John’s College, and Chundikuli Girls’ College was an annual event eagerly looked forward to by the alumni of both these Schools. Fr James preached at my Ordination to Priesthood on 24th February, 1969. He chose two verses, Acts 20 : 20 (KJV) “And how I kept back nothing that was profitable unto you, but have shewed you, and have taught you publicly, and from house to house” and verse 24 “But none of these things move me, neither count I my life dear unto myself, so that I might finish my course with joy, and the ministry, which I have received of the Lord Jesus, to testify to the gospel of the grace of God. To this day (even after 51 years – I am 77 years old now) I practise what is said in these two verses and many have been blessed abundantly by the practical expression of these two verses. Thanks be to God for inspiring Fr. James to lay a good foundation for the divine ministry that was given to me. Later on, he became a member of our family. My sister Indrani and her husband Gnanan, after their marriage, lived in the Chaplaincy Annexe for a while. When the University allotted them quarters, my parents (Late Mr J T Rajamoney and Mrs Lucy Rajamoney) came to live with them. We as a family got to know Fr James and Lathika very closely. During that time my father helped Fr James with the Chaplaincy Accounts. In 1985 April, I moved over to India with my family and joined the Church of South India, Tirunelveli Diocese. In 1996, I was posted to Indian Missionary Society, Chennai Branch as their Promotional Director. I retired in 2008 and I continue to live in Chennai. Everything said and done, Fr James was a man sent from God. He was not the light, but came as a witness to Jesus Christ, who claimed I am the light of the world. With the light Fr James bore, he enlightened the lives of many through his ministry wherever he served our Lord. His positive words and simple lifestyle were inspiration to all who came into contact with him. I would say that Fr James helped me to find out why I was placed in a particular place, at a particular time and for a particular purpose. (Rick Warren in his book : Purpose filled life) and to fulfil that purpose to the best of my ability through the strength given by our Lord Jesus Christ. One of his favourite verses as he started a divine service was from Psalm 122 Vs 1. “I was glad when they said to me, let us go into the house of the Lord”. Fr. James has in a sense entered the house of His Lord and Master. There is no doubt that he would have been welcomed at heaven’s gate with much cheering amidst the voice of Jesus saying “Well done, my good and faithful servant.” Lathika and the children, you are in my prayers. Hold on to the many memories of a life lived so faithfully and press on to the day when you would be re-united with him – which is our comforting hope. Fr James, we thank God for the great legacy of faith and the example of a simple Christ like lifestyle that you have left behind for us to follow. Sam Rajamoney. 28.04.2020

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Ratnanayagam family reunion, August 2018

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My Memories of the late Reverend James Ratnanayagam. I was an old boy from St. John’s College Jaffna, Sri Lanka. At that time, I was a student and Reverend Ratnanayagam was the School Chaplain. He was also my scripture teacher. In my class for scripture lessons he always had me as the monitor. Now thinking back this action of his makes me to realise the great trust he had in me. My father the late Murugesu George Rajasundram was a very loving, and compassionate person and when he passed away I was still in high school at St. John’s college. It was a loss, which at that time, I could neither accept nor come to terms with. I questioned God and became very angry. I thought to myself : if God was a God of Love why did He take away my father who was a compassionate, kind and a loving person.Even though Rev. Ratnanayagam consoled me immensely I drifted from my faith and became an agnostic for about 3 years. When I entered the University of Peradeniya in Sri Lanka my path crossed that of Rev. Ratnanaygam for the 2nd time. This time he was the University Chaplain and I was a first year student. His influence on me this time made me to change my direction and I returned back to my Christian Faith. I am very greatful to him for his influence in my early life in the University by helping me to return back to my faith. Even though God closed one door by taking away my father at an early age, God opened many doors for me to climb the ladder of life. Now because of Reverend Ratnanaygam’s perseverance with me in redirecting my path to my Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, I was able to become a Professor in my field. Two books I published - the first one in the year 2000 titled 'Can God count on you?' and the 2nd one published in the year 2020 'Are You God’s Ambassador?'' I made a point to recognise Reverend Ratnanayagam in my two books. As I grew in my faith it gave me the confidence to write two books. These were written based on my faith, belief and the experience that I encountered with my Lord Jesus Christ. For this I am very grateful to late Rev Ratnanayagam for instilling and inspiring me with sound Christian teachings and values at an early age in my life. Goodbye, my teacher and mentor during my school and university days. I live in that great hope that I too will be able to see you in spirit and sing Hosanna to our God and Saviour Jesus Christ. Rajasundram Sathiendrakumar

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Dear Ratnanayagam Family: It is sad to hear of anyone's passing, but Fr. James was loved widely, and touched hundreds of lives of students, even thousands. I was the son of his predecessor at the Peradeniya Chaplaincy; Rev. Lakshman Wickremasinghe was the first, Rev. Shelton de Silva (my father) the second, Rev. James the third, after which I departed Sri Lanka, and was no more aware of who came after James. Rev. Shelton was the first married chaplain. A lot of their success in Peradeniya was due to this fact, together with the fact that Mrs. de Silva was Tamil, and they were able to address social issues that stemmed from inter-communal tensions, which were few and minor at that time, but nevertheless existed. Following on Rev. Lakshman's example in providing a robust indigenous musical tradition for the chapel, the de Silva's began to introduce what they felt was the best of the Sinhala and Tamil Christian music for chapel festivals, such as Christmas, and occasionally Easter. When their tour of duty came to an end on the very year on which I gained entrance to Peradeniya as a student, it was a double wrench for me; I lost the possibility of living at home while I attended the University, the family moved far away, and I was certain that Fr. James could not possibly fill the position as well as I (naturally) thought my father had done! Every innovation Fr. James put forward made me indignant, and having me among his flock could have been the single largest handicap he had to deal with. (I hesitate to say that, because it may come across as impudence.) However, Fr. James was eminently successful in the Chaplaincy. Mrs. Latika was a wonderful foil for Fr. James, and soon after they arrived, the musical talents among the students and even the faculty became more available, and for many years the indigenous musical tradition at the chaplaincy became better established each year. Both my parents died over the last two decades, and I am aware how many questions remain for us children that remain unanswered; just as I become more interested in the history of our family, neither of them was alive. As the oldest, I abruptly became the chief repository of family traditions and wisdom--at least for our little fragment of our family--and the only members of our parents' generation now left alive have begun to forget the sorts of details that I want to know. Tragically, my siblings are only now beginning to be interested in these matters! I hope that you were able to debrief Fr. James and Mrs. Latika in sufficient detail before it was too late! Do not be unduly concerned about the constraints on movement which prevents you from having a memorial service; even a year from now, I'm sure that you will be able to gather a nice attendance at a memorial service. To sing and to listen to stories of Fr. James will be an excellent way to celebrate your parents. Condolences and regards, Santhusht de Silva.

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Dear Aunty Lathika, I was deeply saddened to hear of the passing away of dear Fr James and was even sadder that I could not come to pay my last respects or participate at his funeral service. Despite the fact that I have not had an opportunity recently to visit Fr James he was one senior priest whose guidance and advice in the my selection process for ministry and in my early days as a deacon and priest that I greatly valued. I recall the very first time he invited me to join your family for a lovely breakfast while he was Vicar of Holy Trinity Church, Wellawatte in 1991 to discuss the latest English translation of the Bible that I had received from a friend of mine in the UK. When I took the first steps towards being considered for the ordained ministry it was Fr James while at Good Shepherd Church, Jawatte who guided me as to what I should be prepared for in term so the interview with the Bishop's MAC and it was also he who called me with the news, unofficially, that I had not just been selected for training but that the MAC had decided to recommend me for training overseas. I will never forget those days. Another fond memory I have of Fr James was when in 2004 I had to present a paper on the proposal for Clergy Ministerial Review at the Sacred Synod of the Clergy and after my presentation he took me aside and said that for a priest of his generation the disciplines of the daily office, regular meetings with a spiritual director, disciplined attendance of the annual Retreat were what had sustained his ministry and that an emphasis on the spiritual disciplines was all he felt was necessary for a clergy person to perform his priestly duties faithfully. I shall never forget his reflections when he led a retreat for some junior priests one year and based his thoughts on the words of three familiar hymns. He presented me on my ordination as a priest with his personal copy of The Book of Parish Prayers by Frank Colquhoun, that he had used while he was Chaplain at the University of Peradeniya (in the year of my birth) and also a number of other books that I still value greatly and use often. As I said in a message I posted on Facebook on hearing of his death, he was a priest whose influence and inspiration has helped many younger priests and as such he will not easily be forgotten. Please accept from Manisha and myself our loving and most sincere condolences at this time of loss. Please do convey to the rest of the family as well, especially Jayadeva. As soon as this lockdown is over and we are able to move around freely we will visit you personally. May Fr James rest in peace and rise in glory. With love and blessings always, Marc. The Rev'd Marc Billimoria

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1974 - Peradeniya SCM trip group photo near Ramanathan Hall

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Fr James and Peradeniya undergrad group on SCM trip

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Steps up to the Church entrance

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Church of Christ the Risen Lord, Peradeniya

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It was in December 1970 that I arrived at the University in Peradeniya, as an engineering fresher and first met Fr James. He was the resident chaplain at the Church of Christ the Risen Lord, located at the foothills of Hantane. He led the Student Christian Movement ably. Being widely read, interested in people, having experience working with young people and raising a young family himself were great assets. He traversed the length & breadth of the campus on foot paying pastoral visits to groups of students in their rooms in the residential halls. His sermons were well crafted & suitable for a university congregation. He oft repeated the words attributed to Reinhold Niebuhr: “Lord, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference”. My connection with Fr James and family deepened when I visited him in mid-1977 at St Michael’s Polwatte, to inquire if he could partake in my wedding service. He agreed at once, even though the date coincided with his 51st birthday! My wife Niranjala and I kept in touch with him & family over the years, visiting them at six parishes in Colombo, and later in retirement at the Cathedral premises. He had peace and serenity, living side by side with his devoted wife. The close knit unit of their three children and two grandchildren had frequent reunions, meeting the parents at least once a year. The blessings he had bestowed to many people now spread around the globe, were returned in good measure to Fr James during his time on earth via his loving family. May his loved ones be comforted knowing of the part they played in this divine acknowledgment of a “good and faithful servant”.

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19/04/2012 - Latika with Padma & Letchmi

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Circa 1984 at Church of St Francis of Assisi, Mt lavinia with Haran Snell

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48th Wedding Anniversary 19th April 2013

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Father James is my good friend Deveshta’s beloved dad, my memories of him go back to my school days ; I was in an out the Ratnanayagam home ; we used to be invited for spend the days and meals at their family home where I have felt comfortable and contented and always welcome. This entire family healed and brought joy to everyone who they came across. I can say I am blessed to have been associated with them. I remember Father James as a kind and gentle figure who always made me feel confident and kept pointing out my achievements, to this day I recall them. I used to hear him call Deveshta “Rasathie” affectionately which for years I thought was a second name Dev had that I didn’t know about but the meaning is “ Princess” in Tamil. Father James’ life will be celebrated by many who knew him, May his soul rest in peace. Samanthi De Costa

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Father James has been well loved and admired by my family including my late husband ! His memory is one we will always cherish and I would like to share one such memory in particular. It was at a Good Friday Service many years ago. There was a lot of rustling and bustling as we prepared ourselves to sit through the usual three hour service. Fr James climbed onto the pulpit and began to speak . Even today so many years later the memory brings tears to my eyes. His first words were “ The upper room was thick with treachery” There was pin drop silence in the crowded church as people listed in wrapt attention as he took us back to the first Good Friday. My family and I would make it a point to follow him around on Good Friday thereafter because we considered it a privilege to have three hours of him preaching. He blessed my children before exams and prayed for them on their birthdays. I remember him praying for me after I lost my husband - his good friend whom he would join in teasing me sometimes.!!! The prayer he prayed that morning made me realize my husband was not dead but alive with the Lord in His heavenly kingdom. We left Sri Lanka twenty years ago and one of my deepest regrets would be missing Fr James sermons. He will be impossible to replace certainly in our lives. May God bless Lathika and the children and grant him eternal rest. Malini Aluwihare Perera

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Sriyanie Miththapala

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Prayer for Father James Lord, I thank You for the lovely life of Father James. I thank You for his unfailing pastoral care. I thank You for his abounding love that enveloped me and upheld me in times of need. I thank You for every time he supported me, stood by me, and spoke for me. I thank You for the countless times his mischievous humour brightened my day and lightened my heart. Lord, I uphold before you Aunty Latika, his partner of 55 years. I thank you for the strength and fortitude that she emanates as an example to others. Bless and keep her safe, O Lord. I uphold before You Prasadini, Deveshta and Jayadeva, who, because of the state of the world today, could not be present to say their goodbyes to their adored father. But I am certain that because they are the children of Father James and Aunty Latika, they will be strong and steadfast in their faith in You, knowing that he is safe with You (and probably cracking jokes with St Peter). Rest eternal grant unto him, O Lord: and let light perpetual shine upon him. O Christ the same through all our story's pages, We bring our thanks for all our yesterdays. O Christ the same, to whom our hearts are given, We bring our thanks for this the present hour. O Christ the same, for all our brief tomorrows, We bring our thanks for all that is to be. Sriyanie

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